如何从mongodb中的字段中的对象数组中检索部分对象(how to retrieve partial objects from object array in a field in mongodb)

 你似乎需要做的是将pinme表连接到自身，然后再次反对自己找到匹配。 对阻塞表和请求表执行LEFT OUTER JOIN以及结果，以排除已存在阻塞或请求记录的任何记录。 
 
 像这样： - 
 
SELECT DISTINCT c.aPerson
FROM (SELECT friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme WHERE senderpin = $userlogged UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend FROM pinme WHERE friendpin = $userlogged) a
INNER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS aPerson, friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend, friendpin AS aPerson FROM pinme) b
ON a.aFriend = b.aFriend
INNER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS aPerson, friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend, friendpin AS aPerson FROM pinme) c
ON b.aPerson = c.aFriend
LEFT OUTER JOIN (SELECT user1_id AS blocked FROM blocked WHERE user2_id = $userlogged UNION SELECT user2_id AS aFriend FROM blocked WHERE user1_id = $userlogged) d
ON c.aPerson = d.blocked
LEFT OUTER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS blocked FROM request WHERE friendpin = $userlogged UNION SELECT friendpin AS aFriend FROM request WHERE senderpin = $userlogged) e
ON c.aPerson = e.blocked
WHERE d.blocked IS NULL
AND  e.blocked IS NULL
AND c.aPerson != $userlogged
 
 编辑 - 修改建议 
 
SELECT DISTINCT c.aPerson
FROM (SELECT senderpin AS aPerson, friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme WHERE senderpin = $userlogged UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend, friendpin AS aPerson FROM pinme WHERE friendpin = $userlogged) a -- Find friends
INNER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS aPerson, friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend, friendpin AS aPerson FROM pinme) b -- Find friends of friends who are not the original person
ON a.aFriend = b.aFriend AND a.aPerson != b.aFriend
LEFT OUTER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS aPerson, friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme WHERE senderpin = $userlogged UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend, friendpin AS aPerson FROM pinme WHERE friendpin = $userlogged) c -- Find friends
ON c.aFriend = b.aPerson 
LEFT OUTER JOIN (SELECT user1_id AS blocked FROM blocked WHERE user2_id = $userlogged UNION SELECT user2_id AS aFriend FROM blocked WHERE user1_id = $userlogged) d
ON b.aPerson = d.blocked
LEFT OUTER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS blocked FROM request WHERE friendpin = $userlogged UNION SELECT friendpin AS aFriend FROM request WHERE senderpin = $userlogged) e
ON b.aPerson = e.blocked
WHERE d.blocked IS NULL
AND  e.blocked IS NULL
AND  c.aFriend IS NULL
AND b.aPerson != $userlogged

What you seem to need to do is join the pinme table against itself, and then against itself again to find the matches. Do a LEFT OUTER JOIN with the results of that against the blocked table and against the request table to exclude any records where there is already a blocked or request record.
 
Something like this:-
 
SELECT DISTINCT c.aPerson
FROM (SELECT friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme WHERE senderpin = $userlogged UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend FROM pinme WHERE friendpin = $userlogged) a
INNER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS aPerson, friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend, friendpin AS aPerson FROM pinme) b
ON a.aFriend = b.aFriend
INNER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS aPerson, friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend, friendpin AS aPerson FROM pinme) c
ON b.aPerson = c.aFriend
LEFT OUTER JOIN (SELECT user1_id AS blocked FROM blocked WHERE user2_id = $userlogged UNION SELECT user2_id AS aFriend FROM blocked WHERE user1_id = $userlogged) d
ON c.aPerson = d.blocked
LEFT OUTER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS blocked FROM request WHERE friendpin = $userlogged UNION SELECT friendpin AS aFriend FROM request WHERE senderpin = $userlogged) e
ON c.aPerson = e.blocked
WHERE d.blocked IS NULL
AND  e.blocked IS NULL
AND c.aPerson != $userlogged
 
EDIT - Modified suggestion
 
SELECT DISTINCT c.aPerson
FROM (SELECT senderpin AS aPerson, friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme WHERE senderpin = $userlogged UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend, friendpin AS aPerson FROM pinme WHERE friendpin = $userlogged) a -- Find friends
INNER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS aPerson, friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend, friendpin AS aPerson FROM pinme) b -- Find friends of friends who are not the original person
ON a.aFriend = b.aFriend AND a.aPerson != b.aFriend
LEFT OUTER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS aPerson, friendpin AS aFriend FROM pinme WHERE senderpin = $userlogged UNION SELECT senderpin AS aFriend, friendpin AS aPerson FROM pinme WHERE friendpin = $userlogged) c -- Find friends
ON c.aFriend = b.aPerson 
LEFT OUTER JOIN (SELECT user1_id AS blocked FROM blocked WHERE user2_id = $userlogged UNION SELECT user2_id AS aFriend FROM blocked WHERE user1_id = $userlogged) d
ON b.aPerson = d.blocked
LEFT OUTER JOIN (SELECT senderpin AS blocked FROM request WHERE friendpin = $userlogged UNION SELECT friendpin AS aFriend FROM request WHERE senderpin = $userlogged) e
ON b.aPerson = e.blocked
WHERE d.blocked IS NULL
AND  e.blocked IS NULL
AND  c.aFriend IS NULL
AND b.aPerson != $userlogged